<aside> ℹ️ Also known as “tough love” or “radical candor”, we believe in the power of honest and constructive feedback.

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Giving feedback

👂 What is feedback about

1. Feedback is about caring. To be effective it has to come from our deep sense of caring about other people and our will to help them. If we provide feedback to feel better ourselves, to blame somebody else, to show them that they are not right, we do it for ourselves not for others. In such a sense, we miss the whole point of it.
2. Feedback is as much recognizing something done very well as the proposal of improvement on something that in our eyes could have been done better. The purpose of feedback in such a sense is forward-looking and is about improving for the future. It has enormous value if implemented properly.
3. Feedback must be actionable. There is no sense in giving generic feedback to somebody like “You need to improve communication skills”, that is not helpful.

⭐ What does Feedback require

• Right attitude (caring) - remember [radical candor](https://www.radicalcandor.com/radical-candor-not-brutal-honesty/#:~:text=Radical Candor is not brutal,about people behind their backs.) 🙂
• Self-awareness: we are not owners of the absolute truth, when providing feedback we need to be aware that it is in fact our experience and opinion about something and how it affected us in the given context
• Structure: if done incorrectly it provides more harm than benefit

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIh_992Nfes

🛠️ Framework to give feedback

There are quite a lot of different frameworks and quite a few are very useful. The below is proposed by Google it is called the “SBI framework”:

• Situation: Please describe the context
• Behavior: Please describe what have you observed
• Impact: Please explain your perceived impact of that behavior

Example (recognize excellence)

At the client meeting earlier (situation) you balanced sharing ideas with hearing from them (behaviors) the client told me they thought we clearly understood their needs (perceived impact).

Example (propose improvement)